Saturday, October 3, 2009

::..Being Single..::

dear sunshine,

it might be tough for me for being single while my friends are coupling up around me..being single again..what the heck?? being single is not a diseased state!! being single is not a doomed!!

ok2,chill aimy..chill.. =)

erm, today i want to write the benefits and advantages of being single.


Friendships

Once you're married or committed to a serious relationship, you have less time to develop friendships. Create lasting friendships while you're single by spending more time with friends. Hold a girl's night at your rumah sewa or rumah hantu, or start a new hobby, or continue your hobby..( dah lama tak jog..hehehe).. This valuable time you spend with friends will have lasting results. Often, friendships you create while you're single continue when you're married and have less time to make new friendships. Friends always be right beside you when you need them, they always care and always want to see you smile.. That is why i love my friends. I feel blessed having them in my life =)

Flirting is encouraged

You don't have to feel guilty about staring at any guy or girl from other class or course..ala, takde orang yang nak jealous2 dah pon kan..bukan takat staring je, nak flirt pon tak apa dah.


Let Your Spirit Fly

You don’t need to cheer up anyone else. You will have to concern about too many things before doing too many stuffs when you are in a relationship. You don't have to care so much about his or her feelings anymore. Enjoy every minute of your life and you will find out that the world is so truly amazing. Though you have to breathe without him anymore, you have bunches of people around you and at this moment, let your spirit free!!

No emotional roller coaster rides

Being single allows you to stabilize your emotions. When a person is in a relationship, especially when it is just starting, your emotions can go completely out of whack. Your mind can go a mile a minute constantly thinking things like, “Is he ok there?", " Does he still love me?”, “Did I say the right thing?”. The list goes on and on. It’s enough to make a person go bonkers with all these thoughts running rampant. In addition, being single means that you won’t have to worry about going through a heart-wrenching breakup. Once you’ve become a successful single mingle, you will appreciate being able to be emotionally relaxed =)

Not having to tolerate another annoying habits

Let’s face it – all of us have quirks about ourselves that someone else finds annoying. Being single frees you from this issue. A single person doesn’t have to listen to someone nag all night. You wouldn’t have to constantly nag someone on how to take care of your heart and not to take everything seriously. Being single allows you to give your patience a rest and live in a non-frustrating environment. The only disgusting habits you’ll have to put up with are your own.

More control over your time

Assignment, test, quizzes, proposal..adoii..you probably hear people complaining that they never have enough time for themselves and all they need is extra hour everyday..wish i could have too..hehe.These people probably aren’t single. When you’re single, you may have more time for yourself and things that you like to do. You can set your own schedule. Being single may give you more time for hobbies, relaxation, being with friends and family, and etc. Being single gives you more time to better yourself. You can use the extra time to work on your daily routines and do what you love most without no hesitate. Relationships require a significant amount of time, just so you know. so, take this opportunity to relax and control your time as you wish. yeayyy!!

and last but not least....tadaaaaa!!!

LOVE AFFAIR

When you are officially single, that doesn't mean that you need to stop love everyone. LOVE AFFAIR is what you need in order to cherish your life and live your life to the max. A strong, enthusiastic love will lead you to a wonderful life. Love everything around you and don't be afraid to shower them with your endlessly love.

welcome to single world aimy =)

::..hugs and kisses..::

2 comments:

Hamdan said...

About being single..what a philosophy..For that I have to congratulate you.What about if a man says things that you say...can they live without a woman..?I can't..hahah

aimi shahirah bt ab rahman said...

i strongly believe that there is no single person in the world that actually can live without a man o woman..being single here means let myself free from any relationship and enjoy my life to the max mr tualang3..i can't live without man in my life,just so u know =)